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Are you White or Wheatish?

Posted on Friday, August 19, 2005 at 01:27 by Registered Commenterdaycruz in | Comments19 Comments | References1 Reference

It's quite obvious that most Indians are usually classified as Brown. But a one month visit to India can easily make the classification of "Brown" fairly dubious. I myself lived in Delhi for seven years and remember clearly the treatment I received as one who was the darkest in the entire school. I believe some bitterness still lies with me even after all these years. I cringe every time I hear a Malayalee parent tell their daughter not to go out in the sun and cautioning her that she could "go black." The issue really got to the forefront a few months ago when Aishwarya Rai was asked on Oprah about the "skin-lightening" industry in India. Ms. Rai obviously skipped around the question in her usual irritating yet diplomatic style but it was obvious that Oprah Winfrey, an African-American, was not satisfied with the answer. Vikrum Sequeira addresses this point quite eloquently in a post entitled "Fair= Lovely" The writer's experiences in India with this seemingly national disorder provide an indepth look with a point by point analysis of why India is like this. Here is a good portion:

1. A fair-skinned person is considered attractive regardless of whether that person has a symmetrical face or a healthy figure. I've noticed that certain people who would not be considered attractive in the United States are considered beautiful here because of their light skin. The flipside is that some who are considered unattractive because of darker skin would be considered attractive in countries outside of India. The equation is simple: in India, light skin equals beauty.

2. In India, you can insult a person by calling her "dark." I've heard these absurd insults several times. For example, an acquaintance was trying to insult another woman by saying, "She's really dark. You know, really dark. She hides it with her creams and she keeps herself light but she is actually really dark." Good one! Zing! You got her good!

Read the rest here. Most of us who have been raised overseas have gotten over this stigma but it is still apparent in the older generation. One Malayalee uncle noted to me how "unfortunate" it was that I didn't get my sister's "color" (Note: color in the Malayalee sense actually means being light skinned.) "But," the ignorant man noted, "Some people get lighter as they get older." I, in some sense of utter resignation, just nodded and went on my way. But that man is not to blame, he is just outwardly expressing a belief that is internally structured through years of conditioning by a community. I remember when Aishwarya's appearance on Oprah was brought up at Sepia Mutiny, many individuals despaired that the famous movie star from India was not able to respond with the simplest answer of all: "It's because of the British". The theory, paraphrased, goes something like this: Because Indians were ruled by white skinned Britishers for a long time, we developed a inferiority complex which delegated the lighter skinned people to a higher authority and thus gave them deferred treatment." I would accept this theory if we hadn't already treated dark-skinned people this way. I have noticed in India that the poorest people always happen to be the darkest. I remember reading somewhere that in the Hindu religion, the lower castes were usually darker than the rest of the castes. This is really odd since my family was Brahmin yet I am extremely dark. 

By the way, correct me if I'm wrong on the Hindu part. Yet, religion or not, it is apparent that this is a cultural issue which has been encouraged by the Indian movie industry and the elites who are in place- and it makes sense that most of them are light also.

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    Response: White Or Wheatish?
    I remember discussing this same issue when I lived in Jamaica....

Reader Comments (19)

AMEN
my most hated statement ... "ayo monne!! ninde color ellam poyello?!? ninde kunjilithe (childhood) samayam nineke nalle naram ondayirunu?"
... i so feel like turning around & mooning them everytime they say tat & say "Ivide color ondo?"
08.19.2005 | Unregistered Commenterbig bj
I know how you feel man.....
08.19.2005 | Unregistered CommenterPOTland
unfortunately this is soooo true...and to be honest, it's not just malayalee community or indian alone, here in vancouver, you can find even asian people buying loads of "skin brightening" creams and treatments...anyhow, i think it'll take another generation or two to move away from this mindset
08.19.2005 | Unregistered Commenterlil bj
We can only make a move away from this mindset if we make a conscious effort to do so. I don't see many young people caring about this issue and that worries me. Althought the actual size of the issue is open to debate as you can see in the comments thread of the post I linked to.
08.19.2005 | Registered Commenterdaycruz
wow here i'm trying to get myself a nice tan mostly becuz lil bj keeps telling me i'm pale...lol...and there is definetly a whole different mindset in india. here people wanna be dark, there peeps wanna get lighter...arghh...wut does it matta?...we got the same color blood!!!!
08.20.2005 | Unregistered Commenter~SIM J~
OMGness! i know! i was on the phone with my grandma (in india) just yesterday and they're "bride-shopping" for a cousin. The first thing she said was : "nalla naram onde"- she has good colour. the second thing she said was, she's thin! this is what they're basing the potential marriage on: fairness and weight. argh! i don't understand why some parents/grandparents want "fair-skined", but ultimately brown, matches or children, but have an aneurism if you come home with a white guy/girl- i guess it's too white for them!
08.20.2005 | Unregistered Commentertyna
ahah tyna so true gurl!!!!!....no white people only white colored mallus!
08.20.2005 | Unregistered CommenterSim J
This phenomenon is all over the world, including America where it is present amongst black Americans. It is not entirely because of colonialism either
11.10.2006 | Unregistered CommenterTariq Nelson
Same in africa,particularly west and central africa where people poison themselves with mercury while bleaching.brown faces dark feet!
12.27.2006 | Unregistered Commenterfrey
I'm pretty bold with my family, so I like to get a nice tan in the summer just to prove my own little point. I love my skin getting nice and brown while my cousins are scrubbing themselves with Fair and Lovely. Brown is beautiful people!
02.22.2007 | Unregistered Commenterkajra re
It's a shame that even nowadays people are being
judged by the pigmentation of their skin, a regrettable leftover from the times of European imperialism. How absolutely senseless and ridiculous!
I am from Germany (where racism is officially out of fashion for about 60 years) and people over here spend all their free time lying in the sun (or a solarium) to get tanned, the darker, the better, indifferent to sunburns and the increasing dangers of skin cancer.Hope that makes you feel better.
10.2.2007 | Unregistered CommenterDalarna
I am attracted to people with paler skin though, mainly white people. For me its more human instinct rather than his colonial mentality bs. I am just attracted to people with paler skin.I dont know whether its because i've lived in a predominantly white country and society or what.
10.2.2007 | Unregistered Commenteryo
I'm generally attracted to people with darker skin. Many pale ones just look sick. So do I in winter.
Many people are attracted to people who are physically different and contrasting: Blond German tennis star Boris Becker e.g.who lacks pigments married an Afro-American and since his divorce he only dates dark women.
10.3.2007 | Unregistered CommenterDalarna
When some of my light skinned friends tease me for the color... My reply is that..."Your great grandmas were visited by the English ruled here in those days". This answer is strictly only to the people who teases for the color. Just as a tit for tat. Please never use this sentence to the innocent guys as this theory is baseless.
11.20.2007 | Unregistered CommenterRicky
What black.Everybody talks big but when they are closer to reality everybody needs white ones.Its not colonial bitterness its colourfull attraction maannnn
01.27.2008 | Unregistered Commentervishnu
I agree with you. This phenomenon is not restricted to only mallus. All of India pretty much holds onto the notion that fair is beautiful. I've written about this in my blog about prefrence for fair skin in the tamil movie industry in www.rags-blackquill.blogspot.com
06.3.2008 | Unregistered Commenterrags
i think almost all dark or wheatish skin girls in india become insecure because of the society,relatives and family.Offlate,i was in a shell of insecurity only because my elder sisters are fair and beautiful and i'm ugly.But as time changes and being very well settled and earning higher bucks everyone r so sweet to me now...so i understood that to have a happy life in india either u shd have money or fair complexion...i hate this country for indians themselves being racists to a fellow indian...when i worked in australia i got somany compliments about my skin color but tht does not happen in india and fortunately my husband erased all tht insecurity i had with his positive nature...
10.28.2008 | Unregistered Commenternisha
It's impossible to tell someone's caste from skin colour alone - the majority of South Indians are dark and the caste system is still around. I'm not sure where that misconception came from - it might be true up North, not down South.
07.27.2009 | Unregistered Commentersomedude
same issue in the UK amongst the younger generation. a few years back when i was in secondary school my best friend would use 'fair and lovely' cream and it was her mother who was buying it for her. my friends also used to call me 'white' as i was the fairest out of them all, but they also said how they wished they had the same skin tone as me.
02.8.2010 | Unregistered Commenterjessie

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